Confused?¿?

I met a guy,who is nice,kinda cute but he doesnt measure up to what I want in a man.For one He doesnt have his own apartment or car,Im mean neither do I but a mans security and independence is something I really strive for when dating men.I want a guy who will aspire me to do better and challenge.Show me or tell me things I have never heard b4.Something new,exciting,and unpredictable.Im on my grown and sexy mental.Maybe I shouldnt over think this situation being that him and I just met and we havent even gone on our first actual date.We are just conversating on the phone and trying to get to know one another.I tend to over analyze things that I really simple like Dating!!Im just over excited to finally get off the bench and get the opportunity to play ball.I havent dated in minute so I guess all this is a lil different for me, my game is still a lil rusty but Imma get on my game.No more being confused Im just gonna have fun and date.